A program for couples who are ready to get a roadmap to a joyful, satisfying partnership.

In this program we will:

  • Improve communication

  • Build a foundation of trust

  • Practice supporting each other in your times of need

  • Learn how to access your emotional intelligence

  • Build healthy interdependence

  • Work with “me” and “we”

  • Discover how to get more satisfaction from your relationship right now!

    • It’s a combination of live and recorded elements:

    • 5+ hours of recorded video teachings

    • 8 private coaching sessions with Mallika

    • 1- yr access to the program portal to watch/rewatch with your partner

    • Masterclass on continuing the work after the course

    You may watch the recordings at your own pace, and schedule your coaching sessions at your convenience.

    Once you’ve enrolled, you can get started with the recorded teachings today!

  • The recorded teachings are online.

    For the private sessions, you and your partner can choose on-line or in person in Weaverville, NC

  • The short answer is no. This program is a fast-track to learning many of the concepts and tools you would learn in couples therapy.

    However, we focus on building skills and shifting behavior rather than healing old wounding.

    You are welcome to book more couples sessions at a discounted rate if you’d like to work at a deeper level about any specific issues.

Get the roadmap of relational wisdom!

“Everyone should do this course before couples therapy as a foundation for relational work.”

-L.H.

CAN YOU RELATE?

You are tired of feeling drained by the amount of work you put into your relationship.

You value growth, and have centered therapeutic work for years.

But it’s just not cutting it

You’re not getting the satisfaction that you know is possible,

And that you know you deserve!

You’re done with

  • self-sacrificing

  • blaming each other

  • not getting through to your partner

  • having the same fight over and over

  • jealousy and frustration

  • self-doubt and fear

You have made it work for a long time.

But you are ready for more!

You’re ready for more authentic connection.

You’re ready for deeper intimacy and trust.

You’re ready to feel desired and respected.

It’s time to see the whole picture of your relationship

and have the relationship you really want!

What will our relationship look like after this course?

You see your own patterns and how they loop in with your partner’s.

You catch your cycle sooner.

1

You know what you are both committed to. You help keep each other rooted in your values.

2

You have the the tools and skills to break free from your habitual roles.

You can access satisfaction more easily.

3

You own your leadership role in your relationship, and keep things moving towards what you REALLY want.

4

Introducing . . .

A program for couples who are ready to build a roadmap to a joyful, satisfying partnership.

Course materials:

  • 5+ hours of recorded video teachings

  • 8 coaching sessions with Mallika (60-90 min each)

  • Course portal to watch/rewatch (with your partner)

  • Masterclass on continuing the work after the course

    Exchange for Dream Relationship Accelerator program:

    $2222

    (Payment plans available)

Available to start today!

    • 8 private coaching sessions with Mallika

    • 5+ hours of recorded video teachings

    • Course portal to watch/rewatch with your partner

    • Masterclass on continuing the work after the course

  • The recorded teachings are online.

    For the private sessions, you and your partner can choose on-line or in person in Weaverville, NC

  • The short answer is no. This program is a fast-track to learning many of the concepts and tools you would learn in couples therapy.

    However, it does not provide the level of holding you would find in couples therapy, especially for issues like infidelity, addiction or suicidal ideation.

    You are welcome to book more couples sessions at a discounted rate if you’d like to work at a deeper level about any specific issues.

  • You will have access to my original course material: 5 modules of recorded teachings about relationship patterns, relational wisdom and tools.

    I recommend completing one module a month, and two sessions per month to help practice and integrate the learning you are doing as a couple.

  • No. While it’s helpful for both partners to watch the teachings and show up for the calls, you’ve got a lot of power to shift not only what happening in the relationship, but (even more so) what your experience is.

    Many partners do not join at first. But through the changes they see and the pieces one partner shares about this work, often it peeks the interest of the other partner.

My Reality

Calming autumn leaves showing how it feels to be in a dream relationship.

No relationship is perfect. My husband and I have been through our own deep learning and skill building process. We had to learn about our own patterns and how to work with them differently.

I ask for what I need and want. And am heard. (I don’t always get it, but I don’t need to)

We know how to have disagreements and amazing connection. Our differences don’t derail us like they used to.

We are showing our daughters what healthy relationships look like.

We have a highly functioning household and family, with room for all the feelings, setting boundaries, and interdependent life.

My mission is to help couples have deep satisfaction and freedom in their lives and relationships!

I am a therapist, an artist, a homemaker, a gardener . . . . I have juggled it all with deep curiosity. And I’m here to say, it’s possible for you too!

I want to show YOU how to make this YOUR reality!

What people are saying

  • A woman smiles showing how it feels to have better relationships.

    "Everyone should do this course before couples therapy as a foundation for relational work”.

    — L.H.

  • A couple embraces, a example of a dream relationship.

    "I appreciate your straightforward, informative, loving style of sharing such important and complex parts of our human experience.”

    — S.C.

  • A couple stands together, an example of a dream relationship.

    "This work is a combination of spiritual, emotional, and practical support, all while threading together the primary themes of connection, boundaries, and attunement."

    — L.B.

  • Two people embrace showing an example of a dream relationship.

    Module 1: You In The System

    See your relationship in a new way. Discover the pitfalls you’re in and the patterns that are specific to your relationship.

    Tool: Reflecting and Joining

  • Two people embrace showing an example of  a dream relationship.

    Module 2: Rooted In Your Values

    Dig deep to find the roots, the values at the foundation of your relationship. Clarify what you and your partner are committed to.

    Tool: Goal, Role, Context

  • A woman holds her heart with eyes closed, contemplating how to have better relationships.

    Module 3: Breaking Free

    What are Habitual Roles, how do they keep you stuck in suffering and how do you undo them? Learn about things like: Shame, Anxiety, Outrage.

    Tool: Fork In The Road

  • Two people look at each other and smile, an example of a dream relationship

    Module 4: Leading The Way

    Learn how to speak to what you want in a way that your partner responds well to. Pulling all the tools together, you can now lead towards what you’re really wanting in your partnership!

    Tool: Ways To Use Your Voice

Bonus

Coach In Your Pocket

With this course, you can get

a week of 1-on-1 support via Signal

Message Mallika your questions in real time.

Get support as you begin to implement these frames and tools.

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You are the perfect fit to build your dream relationship if . . .

You’ve done therapy, couples therapy or personal growth and want practical and applicable tools for changing your experience in your relationship.

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You want long-term partnership that is alive, satisfying and healing.

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You are not willing to sacrifice your needs and wants. You are committed to satisfaction, authentic connection and interdependence for both you and your partner.

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You are ready to see real change in your relationship. You know it’s time to have a deep look at dynamics and implement new perspectives and tools.

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The Dream Relationship

Blueprint

Just the recorded teachings

for a fraction of the price!

Right now you can get the course teachings for only:

$699

(does not include private sessions)

Not ready for the full course?

This self-study option can get you started today!